Obituary of Betty May Fardoe

It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that we announce the peaceful passing of Betty May Fardoe on August 30, 2024 at the age of 95 years.

Left to cherish Betty’s memory are her loving children Brenda (John), Susan (Neil), Scott (Lisa); grandchildren Melanie (Chris), Travis (Aston), Daryk (Carolyn), Devon (Steven), Hillary, Natasha (Andrew), Skylar (Matt); great-grandchildren Ireland (Ryan), Dawson (Marina), Finn, Jade, Joon, Hope, Jack, Lily, and Georgia as well as many beloved nieces and nephews.  

Betty was predeceased by her parents Ted and May Cartlidge, brother Teddy and all other brothers in- law and sisters- in- law on both sides of the family.

Betty was born in Abound, Saskatchewan growing up on the family farm and helping her mother who was the postmistress. The family eventually moved to her grandfather’s farm and finally to Moose Jaw living at 915 High St. West. Life was tough during those years, but mom fondly remembered her horse Nancy and dog Trixie and a house filled with music. Mom’s father was an accomplished musician playing several instruments and mom became proficient at the piano too.

During the WWII years mom was a Miss Canada Girl voluntarily selling war savings stamps to help with the war effort and for the honour of 1^st, 2^nd or 3^rd highest amount sold. Mom also faithfully corresponded with her Uncle Stan Thompson who was stationed overseas during the war.

Mom worked part time at a laundry to earn extra money to pay for her high school and secretarial school textbooks. Lack of employment opportunities in Saskatchewan forced mom to make a big move with her girlfriend to Winnipeg. Soon mom was employed in the steno pool at James Richardson and Son’s.

Mom and Dad both loved to dance, and mom first met dad at Patterson’s Barn. They really knew how to cut a rug when doing the jive. Mom and dad were soon married on June 14, 1952.

Mom stayed at home looking after the children until we were all in school. Mom was awarded a position as office manager at Sabre Industries. Mom eventually retired from Sabre Industries but continued to work when required for Elections Canada and Elections Manitoba as a Returning Officer. Mom was also an adept seamstress and knitter who was often called upon to put her skills to use.

Mom was a skilled five pin bowler, bowling for two different leagues, one at St. James Lanes and another at Uptown Lanes. Many a silk banner was hung above the alleys with her name on it. Mom bowled until she was ninety when the ravages of glaucoma made it impossible for her to play anymore. Mom was also active in the community volunteering at Border Community Club and overseeing publicity.

Mom and dad travelled extensively after retiring visiting many places in Canada, Europe, South America, the Caribbean, the U.S., and Mexico. They spent many wonderful years vacationing in Corpus Christi, Texas making new friends along the way and welcoming family and long-time friends for visits. They enjoyed weekend gambling trips just south of the border and spending time in Manitoba socializing with friends. Mom and Dad spent many a summer camping in Canada and a section of the Great Trail at Winnipeg Beach bears their names. Mom and Dad actively attended any event that involved one of their grandchildren.

Mom was a wonderful woman, daughter, sister, wife, mother, and friend. Her family always was first, and she would defend us to the end. She might have been small, but she was mighty. Mom will forever be remembered and cherished in our hearts. You are free now to join the rest of the family. We love and miss you, Mom.

In life we loved you dearly

In death we love you still

In our hearts you hold

A place no one else

Will ever fill

In accordance with mom’s wishes cremation has taken place and no formal service will be held.

Tribute link at www.alternacremation.ca or  www.passageswinnipegfreepress.com

A tribute stone honouring Mom and Dad has been placed at the Duck Pond at Assiniboine Zoo.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to CNIB or a charity of choice.